“After I got shot, you know right before I blacked out.. you wanted to know the very last thing I thought of? It was YOU..”

-John Tyree, Dear John.

I admit-I bawled in tears when I heard this from John when he was reading a letter that he wrote for his father. Yep, I’m pretty too sensitive with family issues. Most especially when it comes with my parents, if you know what I mean.

Long Distance Relationship a.k.a LDR.

I’m not a fan of this kind of relationship. I mean, come on-distance will always be a distance. For some it did work (kudos for them ☺) and most of the time, it really don’t last. Right? Technology is a very helpful way to bridge the gap or that distance that keeps two people apart. There’s email, skype, yahoo messenger, msn, sms, phone calls and etc. A lot of ways to communicate and be in the know with your significant other but is this enough?

If you’re going to ask for my opinion here, I would rather be with someone who’s physically near me. LDR for me doesn’t really work! Temptations are everywhere-so am I (hehe). As I was watching the movie, I did foresee that the relationship between Savannah and John will not wok. At first it worked but then due to distance and longing for one another, Savannah ended up with another man who happens to be a father’s friend which is Tim. Pretty ironic huh?

When they were having a dinner after breaking up, I saw that fire between them. A love that’s a bit forbidden-technically. The way how they looked at each other, you will know that there’s a desire that’s burning in their hearts. When Savannah confessed the reason why she didn’t call John when she broke up, another tears fell on my cheeks. She admitted that hearing John’s voice before she decides to settle down with Tim can make a huge change and their situation might be different.

I remembered *te**. I don’t know why but when I saw the set up, he simply came out of my head. Especially with the confession part-I really can relate. Distance burned it all and seeing each other after we drifted apart is kinda odd for me. He confessed that after all these years, he still love me and wants to me to become the mother of his children.

He simply do things naturally and I can’t deny the fact that I felt honored when he confessed it. If only he confessed that a bit earlier, things would change and we would still be together-I guess. He’s in a relationship and I broke up with my ex Significant Other (it was pretty harsh break up) when we met last year on his birthday.

I could feel that he did love me and it’s good to know that after all what happened between us, we’re good friends. He’s one of the best relationship I had so far and I still think of him. I know that our story’s over and I’m happy with what had happened between us. If  only our situation were different back then.. maybe.. maybe.. maybe.

Anyways…

The ending of the movie was a bit hanging for me.  Unexpected meet up in a coffee shop? Coincidence?

I would definitely be reading Dear John one of this days-writing down on my list. Check!

I’m just not into LDR-period.

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