April 4th, 2010 
niceykels It’s these cards and the movies and the pop songs, they’re to blame for all lies and the heartache, everything.
-Tom Hansen, 500 Days of Summer
I don’t have any plans of writing an angry post these days however, when I was sweeping the floor after watching the movie, I realized that I would like to voice out my opinion here.
The movie is obviously a guy’s flick. I find it unusual because in my humble opinion, cheesy flicks are meant for girls who believes in happily ever after love story. The funny thing here is that the writer wanted to convey to all of us that somehow boys do cry when they encounter a failed love story. Although unlike with girls who does shed a river of tears all day, right?
I somehow saw myself to Summer. I mean, I’m not a hottie or whatever you call but I hate being called as someone’s girlfriend or so. I enjoy being independent and hates the complications in every relationship. My story’s somehow the same but I guess I played Tom’s part in between believing that I had found ‘the one’ and got too attached and did became pathetic over love. My life was a hell after I allowed him to enter in my wall that I had created. I believed that he’s worth to keep forever than the one I had for almost two years. I guess, I let myself to feel secured in his arms and fell so deep that it was hard for me to bounce back from reality. After all the sacrifices and compromising my own happiness, he left me and decided to be with another woman.
I’m angry-yes. Although for now, I’m far more happy living the life after our break up. At least there are no complications, no worries and jealousy.
I guess Tom was right, we should blame the cards, movies and pop songs for instilling that love is the most beautiful thing and it’s healthy.
I just realized that why there’s no cards for a heartbreak or giving a message for your ex after cheating on you? It’s the reality right? Why do they keep on providing stuffs in setting up good expectations in love? Don’t they realized that they’re actually lying to their consumers?
Damn love. It really sucks! Hate it.
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